Whenever I travel, I would always make it a point to do some
research about the city or the country that I would go to. Most of the time, I would try to familiarize
myself with the map of the greater city centre (even days before the travel),
because that would be where most of the activities of our stay will be. I would memorize where the rail and bus
stations are, the commercial centre, the tourist office, how to go to/from the
airport and where the police headquarters and hospitals are (most of my friends
who travel with me would not know this, but yes, I would mark the last two institutions on my
map), and since I always end up the ‘tour guide/purser/organizer’ for reasons
beyond my understanding, I needed to know all these by heart – not to mention that
by default, I also do our itinerary for the trip. It gets frustrating sometimes because people
expect you to know where to go or what to do when they start getting bored;
they never realize that it is also my first time to be in such a place. To make matter worst, nobody speaks
comprehensible English in Europe (except for the Irish and the British) – I got lost in Paris CDG airport because
nobody can give me proper directions in English, we took the wrong train in
Amsterdam because the departure sign was in Dutch, I was declined from an
electronic shop (I needed to buy a memory card for my digcam) in Rome because
the salesperson couldn’t understand any English. It’s not my host country’s fault that they
don’t speak any English, I don’t blame them. Sometimes tourists are so stupid to think that English should be the
only requirement for communication- well, maybe in your country – but in their
country, try to learn as much basic phrases as you can, just enough to get you
by. That’s why I decided to take up
beginners French this fall, and maybe German next year. Hell, I know Spanish so I’m so there babey!
The best thing to happen to any backpackers (or any tourists
for that matter) is to be surprised by what the visited place has to
offer. In as much as I have a pretty
basic idea of what to expect in the places I go, I always keep a childlike
perspective and try not to keep my expectations too high, and viola! I would
always end up exhilarated by the experience. I never knew what awaited us in Florence,
yet it was the most memorable place I’ve been to; nobody’s paying attention on Zurich,
yet by a mile, the best cosmopolitan ambiance I have ever come across on. No wonder, the Mercer Human Resource
Consulting and other world surveys have ranked Zurich as the city with the highest quality of life for three consecutive years; I
would not be able to do justice in describing the city alone, you need to be
there to experience it.
There are times when I think that I’m too gullible, too
simple and too easy that almost everything and anything amazes me. Most of my companions ransack tourist gift
shops; stuffed themselves in fancy tourist restaurants, or get wasted in
pubs/clubs; I on the other hand, would love an afternoon in a museum or a boat
trip on lakes, or a cultural show in the evening – right, I should be getting
laid a lot more often, but for freakin’ sake, I can do all these back home -
why not immerse yourself in the experience, let yourself get lost and be lost
in the moment, laugh and cry uninhibitedly. Most people dream of going to these places and only a few do, why would
I care what I would wear or what I would eat, or where I would sleep (and my
friends wonder how I travel cheap, LOL!). It still amazes me whenever I think about it. Places that I only read in books and saw in
movies, and here I was. These European
cities are bigger than life – places where the old meets the new, where the city sky
is bluer, where the sun sets at midnight, and where sunrises are dreamy and mesmerising.
- bluerain
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